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Dru Saren, Ph.D.
Behavioral and Education Specialist
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Question: I have a 16-year-old student with severe learning disabilities. His reading level is approximately lst grade. He is very oppositional and defiant and refuses to do any work. He would much rather sleep, eat his lunch at 9 o'clock in the morning or roll around the room in a chair. The only things that interest him are science, the computer or music. He also talks about drugs and sex and bizarre things like becoming a hit man.
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Answer: As a thwarted lit major, I sometimes try to be a novelist
and construe the inner thoughts of the students who are most difficult
for me. For your student, if I'm him, I'm thinking, "I am such a failure.
I can't do anything. People see me as retarded." I see this student's
behavior as communicating protest and avoidance, big time. He wants to
avoid all school tasks that are hard, boring, or reinforce his negative
self-image and do things that feel good (e.g., eating, music) or he's
good at (computer, science). He escapes into fantasy that the culture
has supplied him - drugs and violence, and very age appropriate preoccupations
- sex. So, what can you do? You can't undo years of disappointment or
make him able to read like others his age. But you can: |
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